A quick word

One of my friends recently asked me, "It has been a while since you came to the US. What do feel about this place - then and now?"

My answer erupted as slow as possible - "Yeah. It has been a while since I started living here. I am not a super power to change the whole US. US has not changed me in my basic thoughts. So, I don't feel any change".

Comments

micromysore said…
people change for 2 reasons
1. they wanna change & make a concisous effort
2. they let themselves to change unconsiously

again depends of you call as "basic thoughts", but IMO everyone changes given enuf time, gets absorbed to the general population. there are some who fight that change all their life, thatz mostly a lost battle when they seed the next generation.

For Ex:
Immigrants -> ABCD's -> Locals

see the transitions with generation .. it may only prolong but not STOP
7:03 PM, October 23, 2006
Unknown said…
Well, most changes are assimilated, so you might not see them as stark deviations from your personality.But tell you what, dont change!! Be the same Shyama! You are just purrfectu!
10:19 AM, October 24, 2006
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